tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post3665287402411799433..comments2024-03-18T01:29:51.116+05:30Comments on My Tumbling Thoughts to the World: How safe are Internet Friendships?Suruchihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comBlogger63125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-21309719243443405442010-05-07T12:01:54.755+05:302010-05-07T12:01:54.755+05:30Hi WS...
I know...our heart goes out to them n in ...Hi WS...<br />I know...our heart goes out to them n in the same breath we feel like reproaching them...<br />That's the sad situation they landed themselves in...<br /><br />Awareness of such instances taking place is the key to perhaps our own safety n ensuring less of such eyesores happen that may dampen the spirit of internet friendships coz there can actually be great ones forged through this medium:-)<br /><br />Thanks for voicing your opinion:-)Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-37758412664696645802010-05-07T11:28:12.768+05:302010-05-07T11:28:12.768+05:30Thank you for sharing this. Though it's a comm...Thank you for sharing this. Though it's a common practice, but all this still doens't fail to shock us. I'm glad no more harm was done to you and your friends. The words "easy access to our lives" hit me hard. I was like... "damn! it's so true!!"<br /><br />I feel sorry for the girls. They are equally responsible for what happened to them. Sad though.ererhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10680330275107474948noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-26205835646448026832010-05-05T12:03:11.675+05:302010-05-05T12:03:11.675+05:30Hi Tanvi...
Thanks for noticing that..
I like the ...Hi Tanvi...<br />Thanks for noticing that..<br />I like the idea of doing so...plus there aren't so many comments anyways flooding my space here to prevent me from doing so...<br /><br />People take out time to read our posts*especially my long posts* that is my way of showing my appreciation for that...:-)<br /><br />What you mentioned is again absolutely necessary...basic info is the key and abstaining from divulging too much can land us in trouble...<br /><br />Anyone asking too many questions...hmm...I guess I need to work on that myself...I moonlight as an inquiry counter:-(<br />Sometimes my questions never really end;-)<br /><br />Thanks for stopping by:-)Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-59220338934838844962010-05-04T23:04:32.363+05:302010-05-04T23:04:32.363+05:30I really appreciate the time and energy you put in...I really appreciate the time and energy you put in replying in each comment. It's commendable. I do not think anyone else does it. Neither can I ... Sorry I am diverting away from the topic of discussion, a little here ... but I just had to say it! <br /><br />And about internet and security. I think I just use my brain and instincts. Keep basic details like address/phone #/ email away and share ambiguous information. As a person as well I think I connect with people more on their feelings and experiences than gory details. So anyone asking too many questions is a BIG no in REAL and VIRTUAL life :)Tanvihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05491567577469019680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-74592585260109110812010-05-02T15:59:42.561+05:302010-05-02T15:59:42.561+05:30Yup Ayu...
Horrible things can happen when we let ...Yup Ayu...<br />Horrible things can happen when we let go of our guard and our luck decides to play dumb games with us!<br /><br />Here's hoping this reminds us all to be extra cautious:-)<br />Thanks for reading:-)Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-17272454078072968392010-04-30T23:26:54.900+05:302010-04-30T23:26:54.900+05:30Oye Sobhit...chill yaar!
I was not offended at all...Oye Sobhit...chill yaar!<br />I was not offended at all...just clearing the air!<br />Now that u mentioned...I realized ke reply kuch zyaada he bada ho gaya up there....but all izzzzzz well:)<br /><br />I just got carried away...:/<br />Nothing else!<br />Keep commenting in your own style!<br />Wouldn't want it otherwise:-)<br />Cheers:-)Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-26493038396905092372010-04-30T23:04:56.043+05:302010-04-30T23:04:56.043+05:30phewww.... i sense some heavy vibes there.... itna...phewww.... i sense some heavy vibes there.... itna bada elaborated commnt explaining things in details... RELAX woman .. seems u got offnded n all.. CHILL.. it ws supposd 2b meant in gud humour n guess u do hv dat.. mayb wud have had crossd d line smwhr.. i often tend 2do dat :P... but koi ni GOT UR POINT MADAM... only dis reply f urs mite jst mk me think 2wc b4 posting my instant commnt.. kya yar fir toh maza ni ayega likhne mein :-/.. chalo koi ni.. as 4me bein a thorough gentlman(haha :P) or mischevious fun guy.. wel u can keep guessing dat till d nxt janam or so :P... <br /><br />PS cheap thrill?? i nvr find dat.. mayb it finds me 1 by or d odr :P :P<br /><br />PPS but dis cmmnt sure seemd heavy n full of 2d point facts... kinda scary.. evn d lollllzzzz at d end didnt help.. dont u u cud gt dis offnded.. chalo no more raw commnts.. mayb will hv2 refine dem n filter dem :(... tho dat aint me.. lets csobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03802261027381408336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-50552555291994200992010-04-30T22:02:12.681+05:302010-04-30T22:02:12.681+05:30Hi Pavitra...
There's nothing to feel scared.....Hi Pavitra...<br />There's nothing to feel scared...<br />Virtual life is no different from real life...in both you would meet all kinds of people...<br />In both you need to exercise caution...<br /><br />Till you would not extend a hand in the water...you would not know how cold it is!<br /><br />Blogging is definitely great but so are also networking sites like Facebook...<br />Making friends is the first key...making right friends is the second key...<br /><br />And in doing so we just have to avoid the dead locks:-)Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-602596844916644072010-04-30T21:53:43.597+05:302010-04-30T21:53:43.597+05:30I'm really scared of making friends on the Int...I'm really scared of making friends on the Internet coz I know there are pathetic losers out there to take advantage of you...<br />Now isn't blogging a better option..?? You make friends....share thoughts....! Its a whole new world here....a magical one at that! And no muscles sprained in the process! What say..??Pavitrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10303864561756814841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-19252383186798932722010-04-30T20:50:37.368+05:302010-04-30T20:50:37.368+05:30Hey Ria...
I guess we all need reminders from time...Hey Ria...<br />I guess we all need reminders from time to time...<br />I am so glad that you never met undesirable elements and hope that it remains the same:-)<br /><br />Same here about the net friends in fact...they totally rock!:-)Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-3272898880411158672010-04-30T20:50:14.437+05:302010-04-30T20:50:14.437+05:30Hi Mads...
Waah waah...
Finally we come to another...Hi Mads...<br />Waah waah...<br />Finally we come to another great angle...<br />Everyone’s talking of caution n common sense...<br />Not realizing that sometimes even the wisest of people can fall prey!<br /><br />Luck is so damn necessary...<br />You may choose your friends but you may not be able to choose how they behave with you!<br />I wish all of us all the luck:-)Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-88486988424932846412010-04-30T20:49:51.673+05:302010-04-30T20:49:51.673+05:30Hi again Shayon...
That’s actually true in bits an...Hi again Shayon...<br />That’s actually true in bits and parts with all of us!<br />Why blame them alone...me too would have a similar story to relate of having scores of friends but not the kinds that I would like to tell about what racks my brain half the bloody time!<br />Such is life n such is the need for random friends, who would stand apart and just share...not judge...not paint the town red with your gossip...just be there :)<br /><br />Oye hue...the damn websites can even delete posts??????????<br />Wtf!!!!!!!!!!!<br /><br />And brand new love story huh? Hmmmmmmmmmmm;-)<br />Details...details...and all of Cupid’s blessings n my good wishes for the same...<br />Stay smiling:-)<br /><br />P.S. I have a slight hunch about who she is*judging by that cute pic on your recent blog post* but I’d like you to spill the beans;-)Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-61231480573727407482010-04-30T20:49:30.793+05:302010-04-30T20:49:30.793+05:30Hi Nips...
That is the reason why my heart n mind ...Hi Nips...<br />That is the reason why my heart n mind stood divided on the issue...<br />A part of me went out to the girls for they must have just been ignorant love struck ones...<br />Blinded by love n hence forgetful of reasoning...<br /><br />On the other hand I also wanted to reproach them for walking right into the lion’s den...<br />Of course like you mentioned...what the guys did is unforgivable!<br />But we can’t do much about such dirty elements na...they are hard to spot...though we can n we should alert our girls...:-)<br /><br />Thank you for the two C’s...:-)<br />Almost an echo of my sentiments exactly...like always;-)<br />You take care too Nips:-)Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-49428474633080585742010-04-30T17:51:33.581+05:302010-04-30T17:51:33.581+05:30A very relevant post in today's world. Its abo...A very relevant post in today's world. Its about being cautious and not getting too close to anyone jus bcoz u hav had a couple of chats with that person. U never know what might happen next. Thankfully i havent come across anyone fake on the internet. In fact i hav made some really good friends. :)Riàhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00522045043501343739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-83963793691537613272010-04-30T17:30:32.728+05:302010-04-30T17:30:32.728+05:30Its all about trusting the right person..or shud i...Its all about trusting the right person..or shud i just say..being lucky??Madhuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12169330042435906891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-54693154868674973882010-04-30T16:05:16.350+05:302010-04-30T16:05:16.350+05:30@Suruchi
"They may have scores of friends tha...<b>@Suruchi</b><br /><i>"They may have scores of friends that they hang out with...<br />But not even a handful to whom they can bear their soul or seek advice.<br />Such people in fact fall prey easily to the first signs of empathy shown to them...they lack self confidence or the security of being surrounded by people who value or love them...n hence get trapped by those who pretend to!"</i><br /><br />These words, in your reply to Uncle J, struck a very familiar chord within me.<br /><br />As for my "love story", I had once written it down, on the very forums where we met. However, after all these years, the damn website has deleted that post.<br /><br />Anyway, doncha worry. These days, there's a brand new 'love story' in the making. Shall fill you up with it, some time. ;-)<br /><br />And well, if your emotions are true, then I am surprised to find it so hard for you to sum up two 2's together :-p<br />*yes, that statement was made cryptic for a purpose*Shayonhttp://www.shayonpal.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-42522955473037043792010-04-30T15:30:01.472+05:302010-04-30T15:30:01.472+05:30Hi Su...
I know...the news of those girls had me t...Hi Su...<br />I know...the news of those girls had me troubled for two days, till I decided to vent it out in a post...<br />I stopped reading the newspaper due to disturbing pieces of news like these...child molestation n all...it gets to my nerves!<br /><br />Nways...yup Sulagna...I am ready to get into pharandsheep...which sheep are you getting into? ;-)Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-83198827539576183012010-04-30T15:29:32.723+05:302010-04-30T15:29:32.723+05:30Hey Cin...
I know you’d never be J...
You are too ...Hey Cin...<br />I know you’d never be J...<br />You are too classy n too sensible for that:-)<br />And those sensible genes run in the family...u just proved that:-)<br />Hugsssssssssssss again:-)Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-22794017725579142972010-04-30T15:28:58.109+05:302010-04-30T15:28:58.109+05:30Hi Shayon...
So cute...
If this post is not about ...Hi Shayon...<br />So cute...<br />If this post is not about you...koi na...<br />Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeease tell me the love story n I promise to write about it...or promise not to of you don’t want me to* I am such a sucker for real life romances...and couple of years....awwww....:-)*<br /><br />I advocate net friendships too...when done with caution n even after doing so, remaining alert...:-)<br />I do not blame the net at all...as I said in one of my comments above...<br />It’s just a tool...depending on the human mind that is governing it...<br />The mind may be mature or immature...<br />Sensible or crass...<br />We need to judge that!<br /><br />I fully agree with what you say<br />N wish you and your cutie pie*I am assuming she’d cute...could be hot too...but my vote somehow goes with cute instead* a lifetime of togetherness and joy:-)Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-6293632894642883752010-04-30T15:28:31.940+05:302010-04-30T15:28:31.940+05:30Hi Jack...
Sadly not everyone has sensible people ...Hi Jack...<br />Sadly not everyone has sensible people to confide into before taking most of the big decisions that they must!<br />Especially youngsters these days, I find them to be very lost!<br />They may have scores of friends that they hang out with...<br />But not even a handful to whom they can bear their soul or seek advice.<br /><br />Such people in fact fall prey easily to the first signs of empathy shown to them...they lack self confidence or the security of being surrounded by people who value or love them...n hence get trapped by those who pretend to!<br /><br />I also said the same thing that net friends, if to be met at all...must be met at public places and always cautiously for the first few times till one is absolutely certain about them!<br /><br />Thank you...you take care too:-)Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-29961003329377647872010-04-30T15:28:03.459+05:302010-04-30T15:28:03.459+05:30Hi Smrithi...
Actually quite true...
The virtual w...Hi Smrithi...<br />Actually quite true...<br />The virtual world n the real world are pretty much the same...<br />And the same rules apply...<br />Just coz someone’s a 1000 miles away, does not mean he can’t hurt you!<br />A very valid point there VO:-)Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-77829389995541418062010-04-30T15:27:41.284+05:302010-04-30T15:27:41.284+05:30Hi Blunts...
No it is not an indirect way of askin...Hi Blunts...<br />No it is not an indirect way of asking your name...<br />When I can do it directly, then why should I take the longer route?<br />TUMHARA NAAM KYA HAIN, BLUNT EDGES? Lolzzzzzzzz<br />*the indirect way was when I hit at your cute little ‘manly’ ego by saying Blunt Edges is a girly name...hehe...evil hoon na...I know!;-)*<br /><br />N yup, I do get thoughtful sometimes when there is a full moon*beware, beware;-)*<br />Not jumping any guns...of course I know what u mean:-)<br />Thanksssssssss:-)<br /><br />P.S. Tumhara naam kya hain Basanti...oops...Blunt Edges?;-)Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-8521499446599268712010-04-30T14:52:26.175+05:302010-04-30T14:52:26.175+05:30That incident with the girls was horrible. I hate ...That incident with the girls was horrible. I hate it when people say that they kinda had it coming, and that if you are that stupid and dumb you kinda deserve it. That's just a load of crap. Would you say the same thing if, god forbid, something like that happens to someone you know? Would you say then, "Ya, it's pretty bad, but then, she had it coming."?<br /><br />Yes, the girls probably were stupid to not know what lay ahead. Maybe, they had a fair idea of what's gonna happen... but then, that doesn't give those two sick mofos and their equally wretched-minded friends the right to do what they did. So, I totally don't buy the argument that it serves the girls well because of their stupidity.<br /><br />Coming to the post, the WWW has millions of places one should visit. Social networking is one of its most popular product. The idea behind social networking is nice, but then, you should exercise caution. Is it worthwhile to face all the problems and annoyances that come with the "package"?. For me, the answer is definitely in the affirmative. To be in control, you just need to know where the pitfalls are, and just remember the two Cs - CAUTION and COMMON SENSE.<br /><br />Take care, Chips! :)Nipunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05823238308546244652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-87379052563831672972010-04-30T14:33:03.413+05:302010-04-30T14:33:03.413+05:30hii suruchi, can i also do fransheep wid u..u look...hii suruchi, can i also do fransheep wid u..u lookin hot and bold..sulagna https://www.blogger.com/profile/00416533568207227630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8871236373811077643.post-34752827675449761652010-04-30T14:31:11.281+05:302010-04-30T14:31:11.281+05:30scary su...scary su...sulagna https://www.blogger.com/profile/00416533568207227630noreply@blogger.com