Amazing people who make me go on n on n on:)

02 October, 2011

I love it for I love you


I love it when I tell you the shirt you bought so lovingly without me, is just about okay and you rarely wear it again.
When I get up from the bed and you pull over my pillow to keep it under your arm with pure pleasure etched on your countenance.

I love it when sometimes I laugh harder so that I won’t cry and you laugh with me but hold me the next instant.
When I act like a child and you don’t do the same and when I behave too mature, you bring out the child within.

Love it when you ask me what I would like to get on my birthday in a surprise situation.
When you won’t take me to a restaurant again for it is ripping expensive but book me the best of spas on our next vacation.
I love it when you smile, watching me glare at you for over tipping the waiter,
Or when I ask you to take me out and you cannot as you are busy but message ‘I am sorry’, minutes later!

When you call me just like that, just when I am not expecting, just when it is most needed.
I love it how I feel like closing my eyes hearing your sweet nothings and opening them with a brush of your lips on my lids.

When you touch my arm, even when we are among people, for you forget things when my skin is that close.
When I force you to click pictures of me and you smile at my insane pose!
Love it when you never bother to give me a compliment but when I sit down to get even a little self-critical, you vehemently deny it all.
When you forget to switch on the I-pod when you take your I-pod and me for a stroll!

I love it when just by hearing my ‘hello’ on the phone you can make out if I have just got up or caught a cold or if I feel like shouting.
When you pitched in for my policy instalments but just on a whim, made me pay for our movie outing.
 
I love it when you hold my palm in a crowded place just as nonchalantly as though you are guiding a three-year old and then when I am sick, you grasp my hand sitting by my bed side as tenderly as though you’d be holding a prized trophy.
When I go out of breath yapping about my own stories and stop short and you still ask me to go on for you were enjoying it.
Or when I check out another guy and you say he’s not worth it not because you are jealous but because you think he is not my type.

I love it when I take so long to select between two outfits, ask your opinion and eventually show my inclination towards one and you defend it as the better out of the two.
When I put my head on your shoulder while we watch a movie or when we travel in a plane for I get dizzy.

I love it how you enjoy with my parents even more than I do.
When you bear my friends whom you can’t bear and don’t mind when I don’t do the same for you.
I love it when I fight with you and you make me say sorry in the end and bring me a big chocolate after a tussle sometimes when I refuse to bend!

I love it for I love you!

47 comments:

Deepika Vasudeva said...

aww... to all those couple who think love fades away after marriage.. this a blissful epitome.. :)
I wish every girl/lady is able to connect with this or would be able to.. hehe :)

I loved this and i love your blog.. cause i love mush and mushy mushy posts.. more more more!

Rahul Bhatia said...

A very sweet post Suruchi!Almost soul stirring... Wishing you happiness forever.

Red Handed said...

I love it how you still stand by me knowing that our future together seems bleak. I love it how you hold me close and tell me that you hope it happens. I love it how you work extra hours just to have a future with me. I love it how you tellme you will not stand in my way as i leave but all that time you hold on to my hand.

Sorry that was a part f my life. Your post was beautiful suruchi. Just so beautiful.

Chandana said...

I love it! I mean the post :P
Stay happy always and forever! :)

Dr Roshan Radhakrishnan said...

brilliance... I love this post.

tarunima said...

This is so beautiful:)
It really touched my heart, true love exists and you just made it all the more beautiful by writing this...

Im going to have a good day today because i read something beautiful, first thing in the morning:)

Vagabond said...

awwww =)

too young to say it maybe but God bless!

Rohan said...

Awesome! Just awesome!

CookieCrumbsInc. said...

I will count myself half as lucky if I'm married for as long as you have been and I feel like writing something like this for him.

Beautiful, BEAUTIFUL post, Madame.
God bless.

Anita Jeyan said...

Suruchi...I love it! I could connect with most of the lines here...and I wish you all happiness always... :) It is such a touching post...and I am going to read it all over again.

Gargi Gupta said...

Die hard romantic...loving someone for what they are could be the best thing ever :)

- Sugar Cube - said...

beautiful ! :)

Anonymous said...

:-D I cry all weekend long telling my husband how crazy I look and then poor he....tells me how pretty I am :-D that too when I actually look like a cat who never took a bath.....

Loved that bit the most....

Thank you for making mature relationships sound so much fun....

Louuu to you
Chintu Singh

CATGIRL !! said...

Suruchi...a man like this exists?? or is it just a dive into fantasy?? watever it was u surelllllllly made me go into dreamland,,,AH!

maithili said...

May I may I pleassse grab some limelight and say that this most is inspired by "Love it when" series I do on my dedicated blog for love ??? :D :D :D

But aapki toh story hi alag hai!! Dus saal baad b you can say such wonderful things about your man!! *touchwood*

:D :D

May you guys forever be strong and together :)

Suruchi said...

@Deepika,
Awww, we all love mush and love it so much. Love does fade with time but does not lose its beauty:-)


@Rahul,
Thank you so much:-)


@Red,
Those are such beautiful lines-even more effective than mine, girl:-)

Suruchi said...

@TGAFA,
Haha, I won’t mind if you love it too;-)Would make my beloved more than happy!


@Roshan,
Thank you and double thank you for sharing the post:-)


@Tarunima,
I hope the day went well and love exists we just need to remove the cloud of expectations and idealism to make it "true":-)

Suruchi said...

@Vagabond,
Baby, never too young to bless and never too old to want them:-)
God bless you too!


@Rohan,
Thank you, just thank you:-)


@PeeVee,
Thank you ji and it is amazing that you guys say being married for so long...my god, it’s just been ten years...I used to speak like that for my parents and the likes, married for some twenty five years or so....
I guess times and time periods have changed;-)

Suruchi said...

@Anita,
Wow, thank you so much...it is amazing how we underestimate witty people not appreciating mush much! This is a great n pleasant surprise :-)


@Sugar Cube,
Thank you:-)


@Chintan,
Haha...a cat who never took a bath-let’s make that a sexy cat who can meow her way to anything and who better to know that than the husband dearie:-)
And mature relationships are not so much fun...but very much settling :-)

Suruchi said...

@Catgirl,
He is just an ordinary man-he gets no flowers or spends no hours
He writes no poetry or attempts to learn salsa with me
He does not stand against his parents by my side or tells me how I am always right...
But somehow he does some things other than these right, that make him so adorable:-)


@Maithili,
Wow, I didn’t know there was a “Love it when” series there...have to check it out now:-)
Thank you so much...and story wohi hain yaar...characters bhi wohi...sigh!;-)

Bikram said...

Acha sachin main .. yeh sab WOWO..
I guess he Loves you then and you love all that he does awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww :)


Bikram's

Blunt Edges said...

If it was any sweeter, I would have had it for dessert :D

Beautifully put! Kinda makes us single realize what we are missing out :)

Loved it!

Suruchi said...

@Biky,
Yeh lo...aapko vishwaas nahi hota?
Hey bhagwan, agle janam mein Biky ko G jaise patni/pati dena...unko bhi thoda mere jaisa experience ho na;-)

And kabhi kabhi awwwwwww acha lagta hain after the "offffoooooooo":-)



@Blunty,
Awwwww...if the comment was any sweeter, I would squeeze out the honey from it to use it along with a face pack...lol-bad allegory, good sentiments:-)
Mein to kab se keh rahe hoon shaadi kar lo, aap sunte he nahi ho;-)

Fatima said...

It was a super emotional post...in fact I ended up crying..not to mention I cried a lot today readin so many things and even watching mausam...

lord save me !!
But it was mushy mushy one !!

TC

Tanvi said...

From Obesity humor ... to romantic mature love! What a turn! :D

Loved it Su! :) Here's to life time of love and happiness!

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Sovina said...

this is beautiful..so many times we forget how love manifests itself in these small gestures and thoughts..love this post..totally :)

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The Enchantress said...

Awwieee wala post hai ye...Muaahzzz...kust love the love between you guys ! stay blessed..and simply loved this.....When you bear my friends whom you can’t bear and don’t mind when I don’t do the same for you.

Rià said...

Aww...how sweet. I love the way u break into a romantic n mushy post amidst all the humorous and hilarious posts that u keep writing. :) I love u for that.

Misterio Vida said...

wowo....so romantic...i wish somebody write like this for me :)

Am In Trance said...

Oh comment vous écrivez Belle..!

I Love it.. This is such an Enchanting Post..
:)

You made me happy readin' it..
Then again this post also makes me sad.. Remembering all sorts of thing somuch...
Made me realize, actually how much I miss my Mrs..!
:(

You are the BEST among the Best...
HuGs..
:)

Anonymous said...

awwwwwwwwwww.......dat is such a cute cute post,i read it once,then read it twice than thrice nd than once again i read it.No matter how they are,we still end up loving things abt them:)
loved the post:)

http://wordsinvoiced.wordpress.com/

Priya Chilamkurthi said...

Lovely! I love it when you make lovely posts about you loving him. Aw.. Confused? Hope you got it :)

R-A-J said...

Wow, such a beautiful post.. ws tryin to find out how many of them ring true in my love story.. oh wait! I dont hav one.. :D

Truly beautiful, Suruchi:)

Sameera said...

Aaww.. How badly I want to get married after reading this.. Sigh :(

I guess, the list of 'I-love-you-when' can never end :)

Rachit said...

Loved the post.. :) Beautifully crafted, majestically pen down !

Weakest LINK

Purba said...

I kept sighing throughout. What a beautiful ode to love.

Suruchi said...

@Fatima,
Awwww...cry nahi karte baby:-)Even I didn’t get so moved writing it:-)
Thank you!


@Tanvi,
Thank you and yes, the humour all the time gets really demanding-so I switch to love when everything else fails;-)


@Sovi,
Thank you and love is never in big things...it is a small wonder, really:-)

Suruchi said...

@Nikita,
Thank you and yes it is like that-he often does for me what he might not like or approve of and I do not return the favour just as many times-He is a good soul, touchwood:-)


@RIA,
Romance is a retreat that we must go to every now and then or else the smiles and laughter lose their essence:)Thank you!


@Israr,
I wish for you too that someone writes like this for you...well, you’ll have to do some of the things mentioned here then;-)

Suruchi said...

@AIT,
Oye hoye...Mrs ko missing...koi na, she would return with your bundle of joy and soon there will be another kind of missing taking shape:-)
Thank you and you make me sound like the best, yes you do:-)


@wordsinvoiced,
Thank you for all the readings:-)and love is one thing that cannot leave us untouched:-)


@Pria,
Thank you, I know what you mean by me making lovely posts about loving him-I love loving him like this too:-)

Suruchi said...

@R-A-J,
Haha...here’s wishing you a wonderful love story and more...thanks for visiting:-)


@Sameera,
You are so right...I could go on n on about the ‘I love you when’s....’ but had to physically hold my hand for the fear of boring the readers:-)
And yes, I do hope you get married soon and experience all this and more:-)


@Rachit,
Thank you so much:-)


@Purba,
Thank you so much:-)

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RareSeldomOften said...

Beautifully soo perfect..!! God bless...:)

Suruchi said...

@Center Shocker and RareSeldomOften,
thank you guys:-)

Dongaala said...

Hei Suruchi..
I dunno what to comment here.. but I didnt want to leave without writing anything here..
you have an intersting blog..
You write so well....
will be dropping by your blog often..
:)

follow eachother?

touchofawanderer.blogspot.com

Suruchi said...

@Aakash,
Thank you so much...woh itne saare damns made my day:-)


@Dongala,
Thank you so much and I hope to see you around:-)

Horizon said...

awwwwwwwwwwwwww-- too good, what more can I say after all those lovely comments..loved it

Madhuri Srinivasan said...

this is soooooo true and so very nice..................anyone who writes this would be soo much in love....................congratulations!!!!!!!!!!

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