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08 April, 2010

An Ode to Ten Years of U n Me!


I was asked if I could sustain without wealth...
I said I could and I would if I had enough love to nourish my soul’s health!
I was asked what I cherished the most- riches, fame or experiences of joy...
I said it were the times when you held me, when all I wanted to do was cry!
I was asked if I would change any moment of us being together...
I said yes I would...those moments when we were together but not side by side and change them to forever!


Ten years of a marital union...
And when I look back the journey is overwhelming!
We began as strangers...
Hesitant, faltering and dubious!
You can call it an arranged love...but then can love be arranged?
Yes, it can...it’s the larger set up of someone up above who is a romantic fool at heart!
He likes the idea of binding two unknown souls with a cord of matrimony and watches them tumble and up rise each day of their journey of self discovery and evolution!

I look back and try to find the reasons why you love me....

Is it because you always find your cupboards neatly done...all in layered piles stacked one above the other in a synchrony of a perfect balance or because you’ve never packed your luggage?
Yes, it must be because I strive each day to keep them in line and pack your stuff in my way, so you don’t miss me when I am not there!



Is it because never in ten years had you to see the doctor’s prescription, for all the medicines came arranged to you whenever and whatever you needed? Never bought groceries!
Yes, it must be, for I try to save you the effort of using your brain anywhere else but in knowing me!
*You know you don’t even know what vest size you wear or how often your toothbrush is changed on its own when it outlives its life or that your powder gets refilled before you have to ask!*

Is it because for years I would lay out your clothes on the bed before you emerged out of the washroom...from the handkerchief to your vest...from spotless clean shoes to your belt...all waiting to get on to your body like me?
Yes, it was for you slowly realized you could never choose what to wear to office or buy at a store, if I were not there to pick it out for you!

Is it because every moment that you spend at home, I have tried to be in front of your eyes...stay within arm’s distance in case you would need anything...and never let your eyes wander too far?
Yes, for sure, for I gave royalty a new meaning and you realized you were the king of good times!

Is it because I never cribbed or moaned when you woke me up at 4 a.m.*yes at night* because you were hungry and the Chinese food that you had shown to savour only to please me, digested sooner than you expected?
Yes, I think so, by the way you gobble down my namak-ajjwain ke parathas one after another at a go, which is proof enough!



Is it because men give you the look*damn you are a lucky dude*?
I can say so as when last week someone told me instead and in front of you that “I” was lucky to have you I watched with pure pleasure how you gloated with unmatched joy that someone said that to me instead of you, yet showered your pride at having me!

Is it because I am soft yet tough*please let me go on...I rarely go on a self praise trip...okay don’t make that face....going there after a loooooooong time*, I am sensible and yet a child...I praise yet criticize, I give you space and yet pry?
Must be because it is ten years and you still smile by just looking at me!

And now you make your typical baby face, grimacing at the idea that there it goes ALL about ME again!
Hang in there baby...I am coming to you only!

WHY DO I LOVE YOU? I INTROSPECT AT THAT TOO!

Is it because you kept giving me undying love in the initial years of togetherness, when I acted as a stuck up dumb head thinking arranged marriage was for our “mothers”?
Yes, I think so because when and how I fell in love with you became such a pleasant surprise which I received in bits and parts everyday!
You grew on me like the ivy clings!
You merged into me like sugar in water to make life taste so sweet!



Is it because you are so humble and noble and belong to the clan of humans who come with a tag “Send me for the noble prize and watch me win hands down”?
For sure, because the more I see you in everyday, the more I feel the awe that how can one person be so selfless? How can one man always think of others before himself? How can you forget about “you” to make me enjoy “me”?

Is it because I see you always cheerful and smiling and never ever have you raised your voice on me no matter how much I provoked you...which I did?
Yes, it is because you make me realize that smiles can be better than a 500 bucks massage and battles are won not with thunder but with just a hug! You make me feel that good was never so better and bad is not so worse!

Is it because you call me instantly from work if you leave seeing a little frown line on my forehead?
Because you never forget to get me chocolates on Karva Chauth to break my fast?
Because you hug me every day before going to work and I get a little kiss every time you return?
Because you feel my arm with your palm often forgetting where we are despite all your objections to public display of affection?

Because you would do just about ANYTHING to make me happy?
Because you love my family more than maybe I love them?
Because you keep ranting to everyone about what an amazing teacher or blogger I am despite having no first-hand experience of either with me?



Because you keep looking out for me even in a crowd of people at a party just to make sure I am having fun or not and if I am not, you come by my side and stay there?
Because you still call me “baby” although my size would put the entire children-dom to shame!
Because you make me thank my lucky stars*every time and ever so often that we make love* for you still being so super excited about me!
For giving me half of the chappatti off your plate even after knowing the next one would come to the table in another minute!
For always saying that I could have found someone better than you but telling me no one could love me better than you!

I love you...and always will...and these ten years just whooshed past because you loved me every single day...so today always feels like the day after tomorrow...and time flows by!

81 comments:

Wicked Witch of the West said...

Wow that is just lovely! :)

Ok, find me a husband, I have decided I want to get married, you make it sound so good :D

Seriously loved this, really made me smile...just a beautiful description of the minutiae that all put together make a relationship so special.

suruchi said...

Thanks Cathy,
Take mine..I promise to tell him to be well behaved though he shows exceptional and rare abilities in the company of pretty women like u;-)

Being married is good...in sound n action;-)
...Trouble is being married ALL the time..lolzzzz..kidding:-)

Glad I made u smile n I hope your smiles stay there forever:-)

buckingfastard said...

OMG love!! lemme think...holi is well in past...diwali is too far away!!! now wat does suruchi wants frm her husband...gold...no maybe diamond earrings...ahh now its clarified :P

but dat was da most motivating post to get married i read in long time...seriously women do all dose things for guys...and seriously guys also do all those things!!!! :O

and see dats why i luv arranged marriage...in the initial years ur too scared to argue wid ur husband...and in the later years ur too much in love to argue with ur husbands...!!!

man!! i needa get married...atleast for a year or two

Nipun said...

Awww... That's so well written, Chips! Simple, yet spectacular. I wish you and your 'G' a happy life together, till eternity.

On the 10th anniversary of your marriage... here's a little poem which I like... It's dedicated to you guys. :)

"Your anniversary is a time
For sharing your affection;
It’s obvious the two of you
Have quite a deep connection!

I send glad congratulations
And heartfelt wishes, too,
For joyful happiness and love
In everything you do."

Chocolate Lover said...

awwww... sho shweet :))
that's really cute ^.^

Jack said...

Suruchi,

May we read similar post laced with more love on completion of 50 years. Many Many Happy Returns of Wedding Anniversary. When was it?

Take care

Haddock said...

A good one.
And I like the photographs (even though posed, they look natural)

Sakshi said...

* totally tearing * this is SUCH a wonderful post. By far the best for the one you love. You two make an awesome couple.. totally made for each other. I hope and pray that you have MANY MANY MANY (xinfinity) years of love and togetherness with each other.
You both are SO lucky to have each other. God Bless you two...!!!

suruchi said...

Hey BF...
Suruchi never asks for anything from her husband except holidays!
I pretty much manage my own expenses*raises collars high to show off*btw diamond earrings don’t sound too bad;-)

I am so glad i motivated you to marry..which u must*why should the married half of the population suffer alone! Kidding!*

ALL men n ALL women don’t do ALL that!
But then not ALL don’t do nothing either!
Samajh mein aaya? Mere bhi nahi aaya! But sounded heavy na;-)

And nope, we aren’t the scared brigade anymore...so no arguments...cold wars work better;-)

Please do get married...and oye...for one or two years nahi bolte...
For 1 or 2 half centuries! Amen:-)

suruchi said...

@Nipun...
Thank u sooooooooooo much...you never really exhaust of good wishes for me...you are soooooooooo awesome:-)
I wish u all the eternal joys too and may you soon find someone just like me*aur koi aapko jhel nahi paayega na?;-)*

And one big hug for the poem...
Kya baat hain!
You made the event so special n celebrative...
Awww...thank u:-)

suruchi said...

@Choco lover...thank u baby:-)
Hope u are through with your papers and celebrating too:-)

suruchi said...

@Jack...
Amen, amen, amen!
If I am around for that 50th one...for sure...
*remember my post “On my Death bed”..I plan to tapko in another 18 years*
Anyways, my aatma would always come to disturb my husband n his second wife’s sessions...
Amen, amen, amen!:-)

suruchi said...

Hey Haddock...
Thanks:-)
We try to look posefully*I guess that’s not a word* natural;-)

suruchi said...

Hi Sakshi...
Thank u ji
Awww...and big hug for the many, many infinity years ke wishes...
I pray for the same for u:-)
And yup...we are lucky! Touchwood:-)

Niraj said...

so...sweet...this is what we called the best and the rare emotion thats exist in the world today..."The Real love"..Hey congrats for completing ten years...may love blossom between u both forever...all the best

menkah!! said...

CONGRATS!!!!!!


now tell me where u found him!! i want a guy like that too!!! :D

PULKIT said...

This was one of the most emotional write ups I have ever come across. I felt... a lot while reading the text, U are so so lucky, May god bless u both always. Stay the way u are :)

I am thankful, that I reached this post. It brought a huge smile on my face, such a cute couple's cutest love story :) amazing!

sobhit said...

well congrats 2 both f u 4 compltng dis feat.. a whole decade ..dats remrkble.. kudos 2u 2 4 sure :)..dint raed d post tho.. jst d title n glance at d pix gv an idea... wont read d full thing .. wish u2 many more decades ahd in dis lyf .. 4 nxt lyf mein toh kisi aur ka kismat khulle 2gt a sati savitri patni lyk u :P :P... jitne bhi decades pure karne hai isse janam mein karlo yar.. agge kafi bada que hoga nxt janamo mein in contention :P :P

PS u2 actually mk a cute cpl.. :P

Sakshi said...

Tagged you..!!! Check it out..

Amnn.......//1! said...

hey ..
wish u a happy anniversary ...
don blame me if tat was cold ,,,!!1

Anjali Anand said...

You are a special person Suruchi and I eagerly wait for your almost weekly posts, each one is so simple and amazingly written... straight from the heart. Congratulations on your 10th and many many more to come.
God Bless you both!!

Anjali Anand said...

PS.

Love the pictures as well...you look the same as you did 11 years back when Dimps showed me your pic as well as the article written for the St.Mary's yearbook.

savvy said...

I've quite a few poems bout love and love marriages, but arranged marriage is for the first time for me. . Loved it
btw did u manage to get those diamond earrings! ;-)

Hopeless Romantic said...

touchwood to the love...and good luck!

Joe said...

Congrats Suruchi :) you guys beat us by 3 yrs; 10 is special & i know you gonna make it VVS; So who said arranged marriage never works for that matter a stale concept, yay to it ..n can't agree with you more when you said ; "We began as strangers...Hesitant, faltering and dubious!You can call it an arranged love...".. i do hear you here suruchi..coz we have been students of that & still graduating :) which is the fun part..

And just once more lemme say, you are the best when it comes to expressing whatz in your mind - a very special thing i should say;

I'm sure your G would be proud showing this blog to all his mates / friends ; Tell you what it is a very proud moment for a man about his lady..i've done that so many times, so kudos to her & so it's a way of G saying kudos to you for being special to him :)

God Bless you guys & here is wishing you for more :)

suruchi said...

Neeraj...thanks buddy:-)

Don’t about this being “real love” or not...but then it really is there:-)

Thank you for the blossom wish...I wish you all the joys for you too:-)

suruchi said...

Hi Pulkit...
Thank u... “the most emotional write-up” awwwww....you made my day...I am like that- sentimental or mental...I know no other way of existing...I am glad it made you feel something!

Love is all we need!
If we do this properly...we don’t need to bother about anything else in life...life’s jigsaw puzzle pieces fall into place:)
Please keep that smile intact...it looks kinda cute in the profile pic here:-)

suruchi said...

Hiyya Sobhit....
Thank u ji...you are so amazingly true to admit that you did not read this!

And mein aur sati savitri...??????? poor sati savitri must be rocking in her grave at the thought of this one!

Chalo next janam mein ke liye tasks for u:
1. Be born before me*don’t want umr ke seema ke barriers*
2. Be born richer than me*so I don’t have to slog for paapi pet n oonch neech ke deewar bhi na aaye*
3. Please be famous n witty too*so I don’t need to write blogs for this*
4. Find me*very important..forget this n I’d have to kill you n u’d have to be born again*
5. Sweep me off my feet*this u’d kinda manage, I know;-)*
6. Make us live happily ever after*amen,amen!*

suruchi said...

@Saakshi...thank u baby...checking out now?
*I hope I get the technicals right this time!*

suruchi said...

@Amn...
Thank u, thank u...
Not blaming you for the cold...I have one too right now...

So let’s get into a warm hug n forget about it;-)

suruchi said...

@Anjali di,
Wow...thank u from the bottom of my heart...

It is so amazing that we live at other ends of the world and yet you feel so concerned about me and are always there to appreciate...
You know that means a lot to me:-)

Awww...and so sweet to say that I look the same as I did 10 years ago...u know what the problem is though...I bloody FEEL the same way too...somebody tell me I am not just out of college now!:-(

Thanks for being such a consistent follower...
Hugssssssssssss:-)

suruchi said...

Hi Savvy
Arranged marriages are good when done with care and consideration...
Something that the youngsters should not rule out all together..
If you fall in love by your design...it’s great!
But if you fall into something of god’s design...it’s even greater!

Btw...nope still working on it...I think earrings would be too much...a chote mote finger ring should do*that is end up reaching my finger without causing poor G(my beloved) to faint*

suruchi said...

HR...my dear dear Amit,
Thank u...I know you always have heartfelt wishes for me..just as I do for u:-)

Anonymous said...

juz one thing i wanna share with you...whnevr i c u guys...i feel he is incomplete widout u n ur incomplete widout him... perfect couple..may god always shower all his blessings on you ....

Niraj said...

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Am In Trance said...

How little happenings everyday turn our world upside down..! And you keep count of 'em so beautifully...!!

This was such an amazing post..

Actually am newly married.. and Just wanted to say you Thanx, Thanx for such an inspiring post..

Woh Munnabhai style mein kehte hain na: "Jab bhi ye post padhta hoon, Yun lagta hai Life mast hogeli hai.."

Congrats.. Aise Dus saal Aur Dus baar Aaye.. Amen....
:)

Cinderella said...

Suruchi...you have idea how this post makes me feel. I have just celebrated 10 years of a commitment last Feb, and you knw what its wonderful.

Sharing yourself wit someone who is as eager to have you as you are to have him is something nothing can stand up to. Never do you realize that your life was empty n you needed to fill it until he came.

Bless you with all the goodwill I have hon, bless you forever. May this journey bring you unchartered joys and uninhibited happiness!

HUgss!!!

p.s : Cant help but say he is hot!

Lincoln said...

congrats,,, that was gr8 mushy write up :), tabhi mein sochu why ur blog is saying "this month is mushy " ;)...

sulagna ™ said...

ohh Su this was one of your bestest post..this was lovely..it left a smile glued on my face throughout..has G read it yet??m sure he must be blushing, smiling and not knowing how to react..and you love him even more for all this:) Bless you guys and have a blessed and happy future together...mmuaaah and lots of hugs

Sudhir Kekre said...

Hi Suruchi,
Congrats on such a happy marriage. you two make a very handsome couple.
your posts are a joy to read. and the no. of comments are proof enough that a lot more people agree.
Keep blogging and making us all happy. and hope we shall read about your 20 years of happy marriage too.
(There is no doubt abt the happy marriage part but whether i will be alive till then :P

The Bald Guy said...

Because I know you'd be inquisitive about which, what, how, wtf leg I'm talking about, let me explain.

In one of the pictures, you're sitting on his lap.

Need more explanations?

P.S. Don't sue me. I'm bald.

The Bald Guy said...

Congratulations to you and sympathies for your dear man.

P.S. How's his leg faring now?

Madhu said...

hey..i alomost share the same thougfhts.talk of the kumbh mela thing.U look so pretty.He is hell lucky!

suruchi said...

Hi Menkah...

Look around...most guys are like that...u just need to work on them a bit and when you give and give...they have no choice left but to return n return...that’s what my G taught me:-)

I wish u all the very best and may you soon find your perfect knight in shining armour*nahi chamkega to Ariel washing powder mein daal ke chamka denge;-)*

suruchi said...

Hey anonymous...
I wish u’d drop in here with your name so I don’t have to rack my little n overworked brain with who n what n why regarding u...

Chalo anyways...
Thank u for the awesome blessings...
I guess completion is what we all look n strive for!

suruchi said...

Niraj...thanks for the tag...will try my best to rise up to your expectations!:-)

suruchi said...

AIT...wow...what a name!
Congratulations...there’s something so adorable about newly weds...makes u wanna trade places with them always:-)

Hehe...wish u all the very best...
And so very sweet of u to say that my post inspired you in any way*I am jumping with joy on the bed and doing my yippie dance*

For more questions and practical suggestions...please feel free to contact tumbling thoughts;-) Kidding...since u are here for the first time...this might scandalise you...but I am just half mad really*

Munna bhai style mein ek jaadoo ke jhappi;)

suruchi said...

Hi Cin...
You woman, shower so much love on me that I move around perpetually drenched*I’ve stopped wearing white in fear of over exposure in all this wetness...all my love n loads of hugs...so wish we could meet someday;-)*

And many, many congratulations on your tenner...
It does feel great n I hope the mush continues forever....
Some fairy tales have no endings and when a turn comes with a hint of an end...we make sure we stroll around n wind the paths to elongate our journeys :-)

P.S. I am sure he’d say the same thing about u...and not fair...I need to check out Mr. Cinderella man too;-)

suruchi said...

Hi Lincoln...
Thank u ji...mush n rush...that’s what I am best at and who else to vouch for that except you who has gone through so many of my posts:-)

P.S. Waise all months are mushy for me...It’s just that this month I get its reciprocation ;-)

suruchi said...

Hi Su...
Thanks sweetheart...I have learnt so much about expressing mush from u...because you my love are the Queen of Romance:-)
So coming from you it’s high praise indeed and I feel so honoured...yiyyee..yieyeee;-)

Yup I made G read it...kinda like ‘Happy Anniversary n I’ve got something for you’...
Smiled throughout...:-)

Asked me in between... “Is mein apne he taareef likhe hain?”
Then asked again.... “Baby, how long is this more?”

And then read the parts about him...after which I got a hug n a big mischievous grin...and after that we lived happily ever after on the bed;-)

Muwaaaaaaaah n hugs to u too...I am so glad to have u:-)

suruchi said...

Hey Sudhir...
Welcome back ji...

You were missed...and thank u for the good wishes...always a pleasure to collect as many loads of them as possible...

N u better be alive n kicking to read them all...
Or else I’d be following u up there to do so;-)
*greedy n clingy...I know...but can’t help it...personality disorder;-)”

Shweta Nigam said...

Awesome read - better than the other chick-fliks i read at times :) Moments captivated beautifully!!

♫ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♫ ayu ♫ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♫ said...

wow..this is such a sweet post..hmm..i wonder if i could meet someone like your husband and be as happy as you are now!!! hehe..^_^

P.S.
check out my latest post if you're ain't busy~ :3

suruchi said...

Hi Tbg...
Thank u ji for the congratulations n double thank u for knowing me so well...
For anticipating I would set up my inquiry counter at this door step n asking my wtf whens, whats, whys, etc;-)

Btw I would have understood this one*thode akal hain mere mein yaar...I know shakal dekh kar nahi lagta..but hain okay...r rather shakal dekh kar aur kuch dikhaaye nahi dete...phir bhi hain...okay?*

I could have guessed because when I was making G read the post last night, his first reaction was also “Haaaaw...yeh waale pick yon daale...makes me remember the torture to my leg!:-(”
*btw he’s also on the balding way now...just about starting...so I guess all Bald men think alike:-(*

suruchi said...

Hey Joe...
Sorry I missed u in between...
And thank u for agreeing with me on the arrange marriage syndrome:-)
Feels good to have like minded people n even better to know everyone here is moved by love...
How awesome is that na!

Thanks for your blessings n lavish praise...
U are super duper for my ego:-)
I wish you all the happiness too:-)

suruchi said...

Madhuuuuuuuuuuuuu
Hey...mere kumbh ke meile ke behen;-)
Thanks yaar...chalo none of the guys noticed I look pretty...kisse ne to kiya!:-(

Can iIhighlight your comment in bold capitals n big fonts?
I guess I cannot...sigh! sigh!
Love is strange...makes you forget things...hehe...guys please notice ;-)...it’s never too late:-)

suruchi said...

Hi Shweta...
So nice of you to stop by:-)
And u read chick flicks?
Wow..I stopped reading books sometime back...
But thanks to blogville...getting to read some awesome write ups by amazing writers...:-)

Keep coming:-)

suruchi said...

Hey Ayu...
You could n you would...good things happen to good people...
And even if they appear to be not...we must hang in there for sooner or later they turn out to be good...:-)

Plus my very, very, very good wishes with you...for you are an angel...
Wish u all the happiness:-)
hugsssssssss

Nicole said...

*hugs*

This was beautiful. What more can a husband ask? He's got his share of glory. :P
And after this I hope mere joh hone walle woh (jo pata nahi kaun hai) is just like how you described your husband is.


P.S you guys look really cute together like a match made in heaven.

mohit said...

hey there...

after everything thts been said, reeally happy for you guys :D

take care.

PS: Did you make him read this, or does he follow ur blog without a lil persuation? ;)

Cinderella said...

WHoa! You just wrote poetry there babe!!!

And you can chk him out on my FB! Grinning in all his glory in one of my albums.

I would love to meet you someday!

:*

oRange* said...

Awhhh!
Wish you many many more years of togetherness and love :)

Rahul Khatri said...

Hey Angel,

Now that was lovely and sounds great, though your part sounded so filmy he he...but well written, Gautam's part is great and would like to congratulate you for having such a humble and caring partner.

Wish you a love-filled Wedding anniversary. And now that u r celebrating...awww.mujhe nahin bulaya!! he he;):P:D

Toh ji...mubarakaan and badhaiyaan to the lovey dovey Joda^__^

Lincoln said...

jab bhi mujhe destress hone ka mann karta hain , aapka ek post pad leta hun ;) , sadly ab saare pad chuka hoon :(, keep writing :)

PS: u look pretty in all ur pics, no need for any guy's confirmation :P

Weirdo guy said...

ok this post didn't change my aversion towards marriage(like it did for some people) but it did change my cynic view towards finding someone who actually is perfect for you.


and just for THAT i am grateful to you !

suruchi said...

Hey Nico...
Ask my husband of what more he can ask for and he'd show you a list that's longer than the fresh toilet roll paper:-(

But that's the way we all are...
Dil maang-ing more syndrome!

And aapke jo hone waale hain(jo kahin na kahin already ho*born* chuke hain n has to just realize that he's born lucky)...
Woh aapko isse bhi zyaada pyar karen...

All relationships need work to be done on them...n like I said earlier...if you keep giving n giving, there is no way it would not come back to you:-)

So like always I wish you all the very best n also wish that you meet your 'hone waale' soon:-)

suruchi said...

Hi Mohit...
Thanks...really happy that you are happy...
Glad that self inspection n dissection mode is over...
Waiting for a happy n witty post from your end...as your usual best:-)

P.S.1. I made him read this and he does not follow my blog with ALL the persuasion of the world:-(
P.S.2. Now that would explain to you why I vent out half the madness of my one-track mind here;-)

suruchi said...

@Cin...
Hmm...I guess the poetical effect is rubbing off from you*without we actually rubbing shoulders ;-)*
And although I am tempted as hell like a child near a chocolate fountain to “check out” your dream boat...

Would refrain...n let u walk the aisle...uske baad officially sharing n caring...hehe...
Hugs n hugs n hugs...:-)

suruchi said...

Hiyya Orange...
You are one super smart girl for all your nineteen years of age:-)

Thanks for the wishes....
Though I had also planned in my teens to get married to an actor or cricketer, like you did and live of diamonds and desserts...

But then now I am living with my own little shining star and life is dessert-y;-)

suruchi said...

@Rahul ji...
Itneeeeeeeee der se yahan aaye...iske liye punishment...
Chalo...kaan pakdo...arre mere nahi baba...apne!
And bolo.... I know what u want to say here.... “Hey bhagwaan...phir drama shuro;-)”

Abhi I don’t know any other way of existing na DC, except being filmi... *NAHHIIIIIIIIIINNNNNNNN waala pose doon kya yahan?*

Thank u for the love filled wishes...n aapko nahi bullaya...aapko baad mein private party *wink, wink*

To ji... ‘joda’ says you are adorable n stay the same:-)

suruchi said...

Hi WG,
You are averse to the idea of marriage????????????
Pehle kyon nahi bataya...
*damn...this is going to be tougher than I expected....all my Cupid/stupid instincts at a very high alert*

You stick around with me, my dear friend, and I shall turn all your cynic views by 360 degrees...:-)

Please don’t be grateful...
I accept in cash or kinds...
Cash would be spending on coffee with me...
Kinds as usual...;-)

Harshita said...

*sigh*

I shared it on twitter also....I loved it so much... ;)

I am one of those whoz really really scared of arranged marriages :D :D but this post gives me a certain amount of confidence now ;)

suruchi said...

Thanks Harshita...
Arranged marriages are not scary...ignorance of what you are walking into is!

That holds good for love or arranged set ups...

I wish you all the very best and may any of the cases work out in a blissful happily ever after for you:-)

N wow...I've never been twittered...thanks so much:-)

sobhit said...

sati savitri must be rocking in her grave?? lucky sati savitri rocking still evn in d grave ;p ;p damn u can do wonders woman... n :( :( nxt janam ki 2do list pehle hi pakda di... iss 2do list ke chakkar mein hi toh iss janam mein bhi bachelor hi ghoom raha hun :P ... itna kaam ni hota yar... y r females so demanding... :-/

as 4ur tasks.. lets c ,can try 4 i gues i wud b worth d effort :P

1. umar ke seema?? koi ni yar mature ladies r alwaz welcome provided dey r f ur leguea :P :P, yeh toh issues solved den

2. born richer .. hmm pyar mein paise ki dewar :( :( reminds me of song paisa paisa karti hai kyun paise pe marti hai :P...

3. famous n witty.. chalo dis wont b an issue.. easyt task 4me :P ,tho i'll still want u 2 write dis blog... y hide d talnt.. have it flaunt it

4. interesting.. cos if i dnt find u .. u will 4 u'ill come 2 kill me :P .. nice... 1 job u will tk care of :P

5. sweeping u off d feet... u knw i knw v all know dis 1 dnt v :P :P.. bsyds wen u come 2 kill me .. u jst myt b swept off my lady ;P :P

6. AMEN... dis 1 sure shot promise... wnt b a trbl..

chalo ji deal final den... aab bas gota wait 4d rite tym rathr rite janam in dis case :P :P...

PS: so many posts u write hard 2 catch up all f dem

suruchi said...

Hi Sobhit...
Kya you have taken up the whole quota of all the world’s cuteness...and yes, please do keep reminding me all of this janam about our next janam deal...I tend to get forgetful over repeated birth cycles...

I am not demanding at all yaar...I just want a little bit of everything:-)
Not much now, is it?:-)

Now let’s wait for our deaths...that’s the only way to reach to the next janam...till then I shall pray you soon find your perfect someone:-)

P.S. Thanks for being my most avid follower:-)

sobhit said...

NEXT janam yad rakhna :P dnt wory will mk sure i keep reminding u of dat.. tho smthing tells me .. u jst mite not 4gt it so easily urself ;p ;p... n cuteness ka tho pata ni... but i sure hv loads of quota of sarcasm of dis world :P.. dats wot d ppl say.. rest apna pana khayal hai

as 4 being an avid reader.. well u write it well n mix it up in a way dat leaves ppl wantin 4 more :p.. baki aap toh kabhi darshan dete nahi on my posts.. but fair enuf ,, d writer gota mk it such dat d ppl read it wid interest... odrwise no point askin ppl 2 read d stuff .. aint it so?? well i blv dat.. like i said apna apna khayal :P.. baki janmo ki kahani toh chalti rahegi ab kai janmo tak :P :P.. tk cr

sobhit said...

NEXT janam yad rakhna :P dnt wory will mk sure i keep reminding u of dat.. tho smthing tells me .. u jst mite not 4gt it so easily urself ;p ;p... n cuteness ka tho pata ni... but i sure hv loads of quota of sarcasm of dis world :P.. dats wot d ppl say.. rest apna pana khayal hai

as 4 being an avid reader.. well u write it well n mix it up in a way dat leaves ppl wantin 4 more :p.. baki aap toh kabhi darshan dete nahi on my posts.. but fair enuf ,, d writer gota mk it such dat d ppl read it wid interest... odrwise no point askin ppl 2 read d stuff .. aint it so?? well i blv dat.. like i said apna apna khayal :P.. baki janmo ki kahani toh chalti rahegi ab kai janmo tak :P :P.. tk cr

payal said...

hey suruchi..i dunno who r u?what u do??nothin abt u.but all i can say is...that u r d best blogger,n i hav read d best white up!!simply flawless!!fortunate enuf to read ur post!!wonderin if i am too late to wish u..anyways happy marriage anniversary!!hav a blissful life ahead!!!
now u must be thinking..who m i?
well this is Payal Bisani...schoolmate of Aman n Rishi!!still it send a frnrequest to u on FB..

suruchi said...

@Sobhit....yup...please do remind me...old age is kinda dampening my memory;-)

@Payal...
Hi...Thank u so much...
For the wishes n the compliment...
I am so flattered gurl...

I hope we become good friends and stay around here...keep reading me n you'd get to know me better:-)

chrissynb said...

Nice....whats life without a little hope ;)

suruchi said...

Hi Chrissynb,
Agreed...with the "nice" bit n also on "what's life without a little hope"...

So let's be nice and hope with get it back too:-)
Thanks for stopping by:-)

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